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Zeke’s Room

We ( I actually have nooooo idea why I used a plural pronoun there) I finally started working on getting Zeke’s bedroom put together. Missouri has been our home for the last 9 months, but I just didn’t have it in me over the holidays to do anymore house projects. Nesting during this adoption has finally kicked me into high gear. Or maybe it’s the fact that we need photos of the house for the dossier and I still just have primer on my banisters! Or maybe it’s because we need to rearrange kids in rooms so child number 4 can have her place too. Whatever the case let’s be honest, can we? When I have a deadline I like to make it as horrifically imminent as possible which is why I painted yesterday instead of minding the stack of papers on my desk.

Zeke’s persona is so bright and cheery it’s only fitting his room match. I only spent a whopping $35 at Hobby Lobby to make this work. I just repurposed things we already had. No, I haven’t changed the electrical outlets although I have purchased them! And eventually I’ll get some curtains hung and knobs put on the closest to replace the missing one and broken one; but for now, before little Miss O arrives, we’re at least in good shape.

Zeke totally approves!

I ❤️ all things Lindsey Letters creates. She can do no wrong in my eyes! I am so excited that she sells a few select pieces of work at Hobby Lobby. Hello fabulous! That’s her canvas work below.


Cutest mobile evvvvaaaahhhhh! Give one as your next gift. Do it. Ekisa Designs sells these soft African animals on our Fields of Dreams Uganda website.

2017-03-10_0036.jpgI love reminding Zeke that Superman was adopted too.

Our sweet neighbors in Texas has these verses cards made for Zeke and gave them to me just before we went to Uganda. I clung to these and prayed one over him daily.

Zeke’s Favorite Story

My dear friend CeCe sent me this book in the mail as a gift for Zeke’s arrival. I opened it, read it, sobbed, and sat it aside when Zoe said, “Mom, who wrote this book about us?” And it hit me. This is (almost) our exact story with a few details changed. I was sitting in the salon when I got the call, and we were in Uganda rather than Rwanda. But other than those few things, this is our story too.

It’s also Zeke’s favorite. He loves pointing and saying, “Wook at Zekey, Mom!” and “Mom, wook! Zion and Zoe!” We read it often and tell him his story. We tell him how we waited and nested and prayed for him. How our sweet friends threw us the most fantastic shower and welcomed him. We tell him about walking down the red dirt road with his caretaker taking us to where he was lying in a bassinet by the window at the orphanage and that Zoe was the first to exclaim, “There he is! Our baby brother!”

So today, Zeke and I are going to “read” you this story. I hope you love it as much as we do!

Mommy’s Heart Went Pop! An Adoption Story, by Christina Kyllonen and Peter Greer.


Happy Friday Friends!

Everyday Hummus

It’s been awhile since we’ve aired an episode of In Zoe’s Kitchen. Almost a year if we’re keeping track 😳.  Zoe begged me this past week to start filming again.  So today as soon as we got back from a short trip to the farm, we walked into the house, dropped our bags,  and quite literally pulled out the camera and started filming. I am so glad we did. The kitchen is one of Zoe’s favorite places. Put a camera on her in the kitchen, and it’s a recipes for sheer entertainment.

The weather here has been unseasonably warm.  Eighty degrees today (we’re not complaining), so a summer-like snack was in order even though it is still winter in the Midwest. One of our favorite go-to summer snacks is hummus.  It’s easy to whip up a big batch, and there are ton of variations you can do depending on your favorite flavors.


  • 1 15 oz can Chickpeas
  • 2 T. – 1/4 cup of Extra Virgin Olive Oil
  • 2 T. water
  • 1/4 cup lemon juice (1 entire large lemon)
  • 1/4 cup Tahini
  • 2 cloves of garlic or 1 if you prefer a milder taste
  • pinch of Paprika
  • Salt & Pepper to taste


Drain and rinse chickpeas. Pour the chickpeas into food processor and add all other ingredients in the food processor as well. Blend until smooth. If you like a smoother texture, add more EVOO and/or water to taste. We like to add a little bit more of both.


  • Roasted Red Peppers
  • Kalamata Olives
  • Pine Nuts
  • Jalapeños & Cilantro
  • Carolyn Spratt - Good job Zoe! I love hummus! It’s about time you came back to Zoe’s kitchen. Love you. Grandma and grandpaReplyCancel

Oh friends, it has been awhile since I’ve blogged…or feel like I’ve had time to blog. 2017 came and we have blown right through the first month and a half. So much has happened this year already.

  • We celebrated Christmas and NYE in Argentina with friends and family.
  • The Mr. went to London for work. We visited my family.
  • Kids headed back to school for the 2nd semester.
  • I partnered with some amazing friends and helped throw a big oily gathering.
  • The Mr. let me tag along his work trip to London.  #ilovethebrits
  • The biggest of our kiddos is turning 8 this month, and just 2 2/12 weeks after, the littlest (in age only!) turns 2.
  • Oh, and we’re going to need to figure out a new name for this blog because there are going to be six Millers soon! 😍

Yes, you read that right! We’re in the process of adopting the sweetest little 2 1/2 year-old girl from the DRC – Congo. We can hardly wait!

Recently, we were made aware of sweet Miss O (Miss O is not her actual name 😉) via a mutual friend on Facebook. I contacted her and asked for some information and proceeded to talk with the agency that represents her. Fast forward a couple of weeks and some other family decided to proceed; but then for reasons unknown to us, backed out.

But HERE is my favorite part of our story – of Miss O’s story. Yesterday I contacted a couple of friends to vet the agency further than just their agency website, fb reviews, and 3rd party non-profit “watch-dog” ratings. While chatting with one particular friend who also has Congolese children via adoption but NOT via our agency she asked, “Can I ask who you are adopting? I was just wondering because there is the sweetest little girl that we have specifically been praying for the Lord to find a home for. I actually have a picture of her from a year ago. Her name is Miss O.”

I sobbed. “We’re adopting Miss O.” I had never even spoken to her about our openness to adopt again, let alone from the Congo.

Friends, if this doesn’t encourage your faith, then I don’t know what will. The sovereign God who created the universe is also watching out for sweet Miss O thousands of miles away in the DRC. We’ve had confirmation of stepping out in obedience to this tug in our hearts in multiple ways. The previous example just being one of them.

It’s funny how life has a way of coming full circle. How God is so involved in the tiniest details of our everyday lives. Remember that beautiful refugee family you all so generously helped us clothe and provide for a couple of months ago? It is no coincidence that we got a chance to love them well. It’s no coincidence that their family is Congolese-Ugandan…seeing as our family will be part Congolese-Ugandan. Our choices and actions weave our everyday story and can either knit us a little more closely to others or allow us to unravel.

So What’s the Time-Frame?

Honestly, we’ve been told 6 months to 1 year. But if you know anything about adoption, you know to make a plan but must stay flexible. The plans always change. Sometimes for the better and well, sometimes there are big challenges that arise; but the reward is so worth it.

How You Can Partner With Us.

So we can keep the adoption rolling, we are working to raise half of the costs and will foot the other half personally. Since it’s Valentine’s Day, I thought we could send a little love to Miss O.  I made this chart with 200 envelopes numbered from 1 to 200. You choose a number, and that’s the amount you donate. For example, if you choose envelop 53, you’d donate $53. If we fill the chart, we will raise $20,100 – half our costs! I will update the graphic at the end of each night to show what numbers have been selected.

Step 1. Look at the graphic below to see what number is available (if a number is gone you want to donate, that’s fine too!).

Step 2. Click on the Donate PayPal button below and send the amount OR if you prefer, you can send a check to us. IF for some reason the button doesn’t work, you can send PayPal (friends and family) to . It will go to the same spot.

Step 3. Leave a comment for Little Miss O. I’ll record them in a Journal for her.




Happy Valentines Day friends!

  • Carolyn Spratt - Oh, little Miss O. We can’t wait till you join our family! We are so blessed!ReplyCancel

  • Kari Dobbs - Little Miss O, we are so excited for you to join the Miller family! You are going to love them and what a blessing you will be to each other! Come visit us in Texas sometime. 🙂ReplyCancel

  • Jeana CH - Welcome to the framily Miss O! We love you so much already… xoxo
    *(include as much or as little of what follows for her journal) 😉
    “We’re so excited to meet you and have you as part of our family. You’re lucky to have great brothers and a sister who will be there to show you the ropes. Enjoy the land of opportunity!” ~Jav
    “Congratulations! Me and my family are so excited to meet you and get to know you. My mom told me about you, and my name is Zailey. I hope we can be friends & play together. You’re an awesome star, and I love you!” ~ZBReplyCancel

  • Carolina - Para nuestra pequeña Miss.O, esperamos con ansias tu llegada para seguir iluminando esta hermosa familia!!! Tenemos todo nuestro amor para brindarte… Ansiosos por conocerte preciosura. Ya te amamos <3 Tus Tios Caro, Alfre y tu primita en camino FaustiReplyCancel

Today With Zeke

Last week was a whirlwind. Our family flew opposite directions across states. Fall break happened. Board summits commenced. Meetings kept us going. It was cRAzY.

But today, today was just an ordinary day at home.

Up early. Breakfast. Get dressed. Make beds. Scramble to get everything together and out the door in time for the bus. You know, just the usual morning routine we all go through.

Yet lately, I’m finding so much goodness in the mundane after the whirlwind. I’m learning to live for these days. Days when I can linger a bit longer playing blocks on the floor and drinking coffee. Days when a home project is welcomed. Days when there is absolutely NOTHING on the calendar. I’m finding that BUSY = PRODUCTIVE is quite often a lie. Not that there aren’t seasons of busyness; it just doesn’t necessarily equate to a better or more fulfilling life. Smore’s with neighbors and kids jumping in piles of leaves is what I’m longing for these days.

And speaking of seasons, FALL is here ya’ll! The leaves are vibrant shades of yellow, orange, and red. The air is crisp. My coffee is strong. It’s plain glorious!!! And you know what else is glorious?  I woke up this morning and realized that I hadn’t taken Zeke’s 1-year pictures. He turned, um….19 months yesterday! That’s not glorious. But the fact that TODAY I said “No” to all the things on my to-do list and headed outside to capture this sweet boy’s smile is.

Oh by the way, Mini-Boden has the BEST kids clothes. They hold up FOR-EVAH and have a 365-day guarantee moms! I am in loooovvvveeee with these red cord overalls. You’ll be seeing him in them at least once a week this fall and winter.

Zeke’s Favorite Things These Days:

  • Chuggington
  • Giving Hugs
  • Dancing
  • Looking at himself on a phone or in a mirror.
  • Hiding in closest and cabinets.
  • Running across to his best-bud “Reeder’s” house.
  • Eating. ALL THE THINGS.
  • Pretend laughing. (I so wish you could experience this!)
  • Making animal sounds.
  • Simultaneously trying to hold his 3 favorite stuffed animals walking around the house.
  • Holding hands while praying. (We did this one evening and it just stuck.)

What Zeke’s Wearing:

Overalls: Mini-Boden / Shoes: Converse / Hat: H&M / Shirt: Target


It’s happened. There’s silence (sort of…I have a Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey podcast going) in the house. I have already managed to clean the house, get laundry done, upload images from yesterday’s session, pay bills and it’s only 11:21.


But here’s why. One day a week Zeke attends the best MDO preschool. Really, I love this place. And he is ready to play with others. His best peep across the street is even in the same class. So when we arrived for his first day he was all, “Later mom. They’ve got Goldfish, tons of toys, and my friends.”

Naturally, I will try to fit my entire week into the 6 hours I have. It won’t eve work. But I’m stubborn, so I’ll keep trying.

And oh, here are his obligatory First Day of School pics.

#overzealous #totalham